Anonymous asked: i've had sex with my boyfriend once, we were only going out for 1 month when we did, and now i think i may regret it, it was the first time after i was raped when i was young, but the thing is, i have told him i just want to wait havent said i regret the first time, help? and should i wait or should i go for it again, i think it may have been the pain that put me off :)
Hello grayface! :)
It could very possibly be that you regret it because it was too soon after.
Communication and honesty are key for healthy relationships - of any kind. It may be hard to tell him, but just say something like, “I think the first time we had sex, I wasn’t ready yet, and I kind of feel bad about it.” Talk it out and see how things go.
Only go for it again if you are 100% sure you’re ready and that you won’t regret it. Never feel like you have to do something to either prove to yourself something, or impress somebody.
I hope this helps! :)