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Anonymous asked: Hello wonderful people :) I have been with this guy for over a year and a half now. And I really do love him so much. He is my first love. But we have never been able to make shit work, we have a very unhealthy relationship but we always seem to still go back to each other. always on and off . were not even together right now but we act like we are. But i feel like I have been missing something and I think I might have a crush on somebody else. what should I do?
Hullow! ;)
What’s insane about this question is that I know a couple in RL who is just like this, and it honestly confuses the crap out of me. :P
Unhealthy relationships are just that - unhealthy. Not to mention, it’s probably not very fun, either.
If you think there might be a spark with this other person you like, and feel that it might work, you should go for it. Tell this guy you’re with right now that you’ll always love and care for him, but that your relationship just isn’t working and you should call it quits for good.
In the end, you gotta take care of yourself and do what makes you happy.
Best of luck! <3
-Em
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Anonymous asked: i've had sex with my boyfriend once, we were only going out for 1 month when we did, and now i think i may regret it, it was the first time after i was raped when i was young, but the thing is, i have told him i just want to wait havent said i regret the first time, help? and should i wait or should i go for it again, i think it may have been the pain that put me off :)
Hello grayface! :)
It could very possibly be that you regret it because it was too soon after.
Communication and honesty are key for healthy relationships - of any kind. It may be hard to tell him, but just say something like, “I think the first time we had sex, I wasn’t ready yet, and I kind of feel bad about it.” Talk it out and see how things go.
Only go for it again if you are 100% sure you’re ready and that you won’t regret it. Never feel like you have to do something to either prove to yourself something, or impress somebody.
I hope this helps! :)
-Em
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Anonymous asked: I am a sophomore in high school and have had a boyfriend before. There is this mormon senior guy that I went to his bands indie concert and he said it was nice to see my "bright face" in the audience, then he asked for my phone number. He keeps texting & facebook messaging me & I, back. I think i might like him. But is he being a friend or is he interested in me?
Hello darling!
If he asked for your number, and continues to talk to you, it sounds very much like he’s interested. Be it friendship, or more.
Maybe try flirting a bit in your messages, see if he picks up on it. If he’s uncomfortable with it, or if he only wants to be friends, I’m sure he’ll make it known. But if he goes along with the flirting, maybe ask him to hang out sometime, making your intentions clear.
Just take it day by day and see how it goes.
Good luck! <3
-Em
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Anonymous asked: I think I'm a lesbian, but I'm terrified to admit it. To myself or my family. What should I do?
Hello dear. Well, I would tell my very closest friend first. Even if you aren’t one hundred percent sure. Breach the subject gently, just hint at first. Then tell them you’re still figuring it out, if that is the case. Don’t make excuses or try to justify yourself. It will be easier for them to accept your sexuality if they think that you do. Then I would think of all the reasons you think you are lesbian, and decide if they are legit. This isn’t exactly a life decision either, the way people identify with themselves changes all the time. If you really believe you are lesbian, start with telling the people closest to you. If you are closer with one parent pr sibling than the other(s), tell them first. Ask everybody you tell not to tell anyone else until you want them to know. I’m sure your family and friends all love you, they will all learn to accept you for the way you are no matter what. Just be warned that if this is completely unexpected it may take some time to get used to.
I love you girl! Don’t change!
-Riah
i put the gun to my head; i held the pills in my hand; i grasped the blade; you saved me just in time. hope didn’t give up.
two messages of hope in one
